Succesful relationships don’t happen, they are actively created by doing deep healing practices and intimate sexuality practices on the foundation of clarity, communication, and connection.

My Approach

If you work with me as a couple, we will focus not only on the mind, but also on the emotional, physical & energetic levels:

Mind:

• Get clarity on the deeper layers of what’s really going on

• Create a healthy (non-violent) communication style

• Discover any limiting beliefs and transforming these into empowering beliefs
  

Emotional:

• Embrace all feelings to be there - from a place of love & acceptance, without any judgment

• Learn to express your emotions in a non-harmful way, that serves both of you

• Become aware of your triggers in the heat of the moment and transform this together into healing & growth

• Empower both of you to hold safe space for each other’s emotions (to be present and really see, hear & feel the other)

• Reveal & speak your deepest fears & desires
  

Physical:

• Work with the bodily sensations

• Listen to the wisdom of your body

• Grow sensitivity

• Learn to fully give and fully receive

• Connect deeply with each other through intimacy and sexuality practices (when this feels safe & aligned)
  

Energetic:

• Using energetic tools & practices (e.g. eye-gazing, breathwork, etc.) to connect on a deeper (soul) level

• Unmask & listen to your inner truth (and make sure this is not based on any form of conditioning)

• Tap into your (sexual) life force energy
  

This approach differs from most relationship coaching in Western society, which is often mostly focused on talking. Don’t get me wrong, I believe that gaining clarity, a healthy (non-violent) communication style, and an empowering mindset are key elements to get the love you want!

But in my experience: combining communication & mindset with somatic & embodiment work will lead to the most transformational journey where both of you can heal, grow, and experience deep connection, conscious love & ecstatic sex!

My Approach (continued)

We will use holistic tools to work on the mental body, the emotional body, the physical body and the energetic body.

Some examples of tools that I use:

• Drop-in Meditations

• Connection Exercises

• Non-violent Communication Practices

• Pillow Constellations (e.g. working with relationship dynamics, habits & patterns, inner child pieces, clearings, etc.)

• Breathwork

• Healing Practices

• Energy Work

• Body Tools (e.g. movement, sound, touch)

• (Tantric) Sex Tools & Techniques

• Intimacy & Sexuality Practices*

*Note: Camera (& microphone) can be turned off during the intimacy & sexuality practices. Or I can send an audio file to do it in your own time.

You can find more about me, my experience & my approach here.

What’s included?

💗 Five, seven or ten couple coaching sessions of 90 minutes (weekly or bi-weekly, online via Zoom). Optionally, we can combine some of them into 2,5-hour sessions.

💗 Powerful homework to support & further build upon the work we’ll do in the sessions. This will be in the form of intention (or focus), practices & concrete action steps.

💗 Personally designed audio recordings that you will receive as guidance for the practices (e.g. guided communication exercises, meditations, breathwork, and other tools & practices).

💗 A safe space full of love & compassion - without any judgment - supporting both of you for deep transformation to occur.

💗 Professional guidance from someone who has been on a deep transformational journey for over a decade. My relationships & break-ups have played a key role in this. The transformation & growth I went through individually as well as with my (ex-)partners have resulted in all three of them still being very close in my heart & in my life. So I have a lot of lived personal experience, as well as a couple of years of coaching experience. I feel confident in my ability to hold you, feel you, see you & hear you for all that arises..

💗 Quality connection between the sessions via e-mail, text, app, and/or voice messages for support and accountability to empower you in this transformational journey (if desired).